By restyourpaws | October 28, 2025
Should Other Pets Be Present for a Euthanasia?
Submitted by Rest Your Paws
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The bond between pets can be extremely strong, just like any other family member.
Deciding whether to have other cats and dogs present when you say goodbye to a cherished pet is a personal decision. Though it is our professional opinion that other pets may benefit from being present, we also respect that families know their pets best and understand their needs. It also may depend on their unique bond and relationship at home. Practical considerations, like whether you say goodbye at home or in a clinic, may also influence the decision. Many owners tell us that when their pet wasn’t present for the euthanasia of their companion, they spent time afterwards looking confused, stressed and upset, and would search or wait for them to come home. In comparison, if allowed to see and smell their companion after death, they seem to have a natural understanding of what has happened and may be able to move on more easily.
Most pets are respectful during the euthanasia process and may even respond by cuddling their companion or giving them space as needed. However, sometimes having another pet present isn’t a good idea. For example, pets that need to be separated due to aggression or hyperactivity or young dogs and cats that aren’t aware of the sensitive situation and want to play.
Even if your pet wasn’t present during the euthanasia, it can be helpful if they have a moment to see their companion after they have passed away. Sometimes, a pet will sniff the air and not approach any further. Others may sniff their companion’s body before walking away, and a few will take a moment to curl up next to their friend. If this isn’t possible, bring an item to the visit such as a blanket that your other pets can sniff after and gain information from. In our experience, this isn’t upsetting for them and can actually help them to understand what has occurred.
Do Other Pets Grieve?
How to help other pets cope with the loss of a companion:
Much like us, each animal will grieve and respond differently to the loss, as well as the resulting changes in the household dynamics and routines. It is important to be able to recognise signs of grief and distress in our pets so we can better help them cope and move forward.
Though there is no set period for grief, most pet owners see changes in behaviour for 2-6 months afterwards. It’s
important to remember that some pets may not show
any signs of grieving. This is also completely normal and
doesn’t mean your pet didn’t have a strong bond with their companion. Your pet is just responding to loss differently.
How To Help Your Pet Through Grief
Facilitate your pet’s grieving process and help them cope by noting changes and taking appropriate action:
- Support changes in behaviour. Your pet’s behaviour may change while they’re grieving. This is completely normal, however, it may include undesirable behaviours such as being more destructive or anxious when left alone.
- Avoid negative reinforcement and punishment. Instead, redirect your pet towards a positive activity such as a food puzzle or toy.
- Recognise signs of separation anxiety. These include pacing, panting, difficulty settling, whining, barking, drooling, urinating in unusual places, or destructive behaviour. Speak to your veterinarian if your pet isn’t coping well.
- Try pheromones. We recommend purchasing pheromone products designed to calm and reduce anxiety during change. Brands include Feliway for cats and Adaptil for dogs.
- Monitor for changes to their relationships. This can include aggression or territorial behaviour. The dynamic in the house has shifted, and they will need time to adjust.
- Only remove or wash your deceased pet’s bedding gradually, not all at once.
- Keep routines as consistent as possible. This includes feeding times, diet, toileting, and exercise.
- Make time for positive activities, such as enjoying quality time together, socialising, or playing with their favourite toys.
- Reward good behaviour. Give treats, and positive reinforcement and reassure your pet if they’re seeking love and attention.
It is always best to consult your veterinarian if you have any concerns regarding your pet and their behaviour. In some cases, medication may be needed to help manage their anxieties. If their distress leads to behaviours that could harm their physical health, it’s important to address this promptly.
Remember that physical illnesses can sometimes manifest through behavioural changes, so consulting your veterinarian ensures any underlying issues are identified and treated appropriately. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to our team if you need any guidance or advice in these matters. Understanding your pet’s behaviour and how you can best support them is an important part of processing loss and often helps us to heal too.
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